…But the ladies will read it anyway.

Ladies want to know the way men think. They would like to know why we have double standards, why we lie and lead them on, why we’re not upfront, why we’re so afraid to commit, why we don’t completely answer questions, why we have a hard time communicating

As my father would say, “I made the mistake of watching music videos the other day.” I was unsurprised, yet disappointed to see that it is still the case that light-complexioned/non-black/“exotic” women seem to be the preferred casting preference. Just because it ain’t new doesn’t mean it’s not a problem. And just because we’ve

On a recent trip from Chicago to Atlanta, I stopped through Gary, Indiana to visit the childhood home of the legendary King of Pop, Michael Jackson. As we drove up that little one-lane, bumpy road, I couldn’t help but think to myself, what if he stayed? What if Michael Jackson never believed he could be

What’s a girl suppose to do when she realizes her man is someone else’s guy?

Morally you would hope she would drop him like a bad habit and forget his whole existence, but realistically she and many other women like Jocelyn Brown can’t get off their high horse and let him go.

Even though affairs have been

Since when is a woman with strength, ambition and an opinion the new “bitch?”

On Kanye West’s newest single, the rapper yells, “No one man should have all that power.” Well what about any one woman? As men, we claim we want a lady with her own career, own mind, drive and success but usually end

I’m not sure I’ve ever really slow danced before. This fact occurred to me the other night, as I was dozing off to “Anniversary” on the train the other night. I’ve been listening to the Tony Toni Tone song for the better part of my life and I always imagined it being one of those tunes I’d be slow dragging to as an adult

Discretion is advised.

Jay-Z and Beyoncé kept their relationship private – they’re happily married. Brandy announced her brief stint with Flo-Rida on a VH1 reality show and they didn’t make it past date one.

The appeal of privacy has become so appealing that businesses have come up with several lucrative and entertaining ways to invade it. TMZ

How often do we celebrate our lives other than on our birthdays? Most likely, never. We’ve somehow conditioned ourselves to only celebrate our well-being once a year with family and friends instead of everyday like we truly should.

Sure, relationships don’t work out and couples split, but when there’s a pattern of serial monogamy and break-ups, one begins to question the individuals involved. There was a time when you could predict the beauty of literature based upon it’s exterior binding